Love. Clarity. Transformation. Possibility.
Growing beyond
old stories
holding space for individuals, couples, and groups to break patterns and step into the space of possibility
From Patterns to Possibility
Too often, we get stuck in loops, behaviours, thoughts, and beliefs that no longer serve us. These patterns are ways we learned to survive in the world, repeated until they became automatic habits that create the same results.
I am passionate about helping people notice these patterns, step out of them, and make conscious choices aligned with the experience of life they want to create.
My work is rooted in radical responsibility, providing the tools and support needed for sustainable inner change.
What is the experience you want to create in your life?
What can I do for you?
Coaching
Session
1:1 Coaching Sessions
Most people try to fix their life by changing the surface: new job, new habit, new morning routine.
But if the underlying mindset and identity stay the same, the results do too.
In our sessions, we don’t just polish the old script.
We look at the story you’re living in, the roles, beliefs, and automatic patterns that quietly (or not so quietly) run the show, and we start to rewrite it.
This is for you if:
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Your life looks “fine”, but inside you feel stuck, bored, or on autopilot
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You keep repeating the same patterns in work, parenting, relationships or with yourself
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You know you’re capable of more, but something in you keeps pulling the handbrake
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You’re hungry for clarity, tools, distinctions and practical steps
What we do together:
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Build self-awareness: map the stories, identities and behaviours that keep recreating the same results
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Break through inner blocks
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Design concrete experiments so life becomes your practice ground, not just something that happens to you
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Develop a mindset that supports aliveness, possibility and choice, rather than coping and surviving
This isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about revealing more of who you actually are and giving that version of you room to move.
Practicalities
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You can bring a specific situation (parenting, relationship, work, creativity, self-doubt) or a general sense of “this isn’t it”
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We work with what is alive right now and translate insights into clear next steps
Single session: $80
Emotional
Healing
Process
Meeting the emotions that never had a chance to be felt
Most of us were never taught what to do with feelings.
So we pushed them down, kept it together, moved on.
Those emotions don’t disappear.
They live in the body, shaping how you react, how close you let people get, how safe it is to be you, with integrity.
They show up as overreactions, shutdown, anxiety, numbness, confusion… often in moments that “don’t make sense” compared to what’s actually happening.
An Emotional Healing Process (EHP) is a guided space to finally turn toward those old emotions instead of avoiding them.
It’s about allowing the body and nervous system to complete something that was interrupted years ago.
EHP is not just about healing what was.
It’s about reclaiming your full presence in the here and now.
Single session: $80
Men's Coaching
From Linear Life to Alive
1:1 Coaching for Men Who Are Done Just Coping
This is for you if:
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Your life looks “fine” from the outside, but inside you are bored, numb, or on autopilot.
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You’ve followed the linear script. Study, job, relationship, enjoy weekends, and it’s no longer enough.
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You’re hungry for more aliveness and depth, but you don't know where to start.
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A part of you is scared to rock the boat and another part is done with just surviving.
What we do together:
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Map your current identity: the roles, stories, and expectations that keep you stuck in the linear track.
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Discover and experiment with different ways of being a man, a partner, a creator, and experience aliveness.
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Create real-life experiments so your days become a training ground for a different way of living (not just thinking about it).
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Build the inner capacity to feel more (not less) so you can actually handle the life you say you want.
This is not:
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Therapy or crisis management.
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A productivity hack to squeeze more out of your “linear” life.
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A quick hit of motivation that fades after a week.
This is:
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A space to tell the truth about where you’re at.
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A laboratory to try on a different way of being a man, consciously.
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A starting point for a life that feels like yours again.
Weekly 30 min session: $50 or
60 min session: $80
Ready to create change?
Coaching bundles to transform your life
Clarity
Kickstart
Identify patterns, clarify goals and experience insightful inner experiences.
3 sessions
to be used within 6 weeks
$225
From Patterns to Possibility
Break old habits, establish new choices and create aligned results.
6 sessions
to be used within 2 months
$420
Re-learn to feel -
for men
Identify emotional blocks and experience sensations and emotional clarity
12 x weekly 30 min sessions
$500
Build
Momentum
Create transformational momentum
2 x monthly session for
6 months
$800
Suze M, NZ
After the introductory session, I was immediately put at ease. Jacopo is a highly empathetic coach who really listens.
Jacopo helped me to see past hurts and current behaviours that were holding me back.
James S, NZ
Jacopo followed up with a call after my first ETB (Expand The Box) training two years ago. He held an open space that I found easy to be in. Feelings bubbled up and Jacopo’s curiosity welcomed them.
Liliya S, USA
Jacopo is a magician spaceholder. I was able to undo a life long pattern in 1 session with him. And a month later after the session the results are still stable. He intuits the right questions and skillfully navigates to the very core of an issue.
Sebastian P, NZ
When I first met Jacopo I was astonished by his striking presence. Through speaking with him in conversation I had the sense through his power of listening that I was not only allowed but encouraged to peel back the next layer of my thinking to reveal what is really alive in me moment by moment.
Lukas L, NZ
I appreciate Jacopos ability to make visible and tangible the magic that is possible when I take responsibility, when I start to make change where I want to see change in my life.In my sessions with him, I can feel his care and love and his strong commitment to evolution.
Patricia M, NZ
Jacopo gently and persistently encouraged me to take the space to feel and not to rush it.
He was perceptive with his questions and brought distinctions at different times that expanded my thinking
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